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		<title>Don&#8217;t Feed Your Ego</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 22:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Money will never bring you true happiness - however, happiness will bring you true money.


Related Quotes:<ol><li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/articles/psychology/happiness-finds-a-happy-soul/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Happiness Finds a Happy Soul'>Happiness Finds a Happy Soul</a><br/><small>Think about the last time you were really happy; was it with friends or family, were you sitting around laughing from the gut or fishing with your father? When seeking happiness in life, many times...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/success/personality-problems-with-other-people/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Personality Problems With Other People'>Personality Problems With Other People</a><br/><small>There are millions of people today who are self-conscious, shy, timid, ill-at-ease in social situations, who feel inferior and never realize that their real problem is a human relations problem. It never seems to get...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/success/comm-you-nication/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Comm-YOU-nication'>Comm-YOU-nication</a><br/><small>Successful people know there's a single three-letter word for getting people's attention... That word is YOU. Adults camouflage their self-centeredness under a mask of civilization and politeness. Yet the human brain still immediately, instinctively, and...</small></li>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Money will never bring you true happiness &#8211; however, happiness will bring you true money.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s not &#8220;he who dies with the most toys wins.&#8221; It&#8217;s &#8220;he who has the most time to play with his toys and the most fun playing with them who wins.&#8221; In other words: all work and no play means a life of all ego and no spirit.</p>
<p>True success is not about making lots of moola so you can get yourself expensive toys for your ego &#8211; nor is it about getting yourself a cure, sexy person for your ego. True success is about satisfying your spirit with things. For instance, your ego looks at a cute, sexy person and says, &#8220;Yum, yum. I want that person.&#8221; But your spirit is smarter. It looks at loving, joyous couples and things, &#8220;Mmmm, i want that job, that happiness, that love.&#8221;</p>
<p>Your spirit wisely knows: it&#8217;s not a mate&#8217;s superficial qualities that ultimately make you happy, but the dynamic this mate and you have together &#8211; and this blissful feelings this mate can give you in your true heart.</p>


<p>Related Quotes:<ol><li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/articles/psychology/happiness-finds-a-happy-soul/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Happiness Finds a Happy Soul'>Happiness Finds a Happy Soul</a><br/><small>Think about the last time you were really happy; was it with friends or family, were you sitting around laughing from the gut or fishing with your father? When seeking happiness in life, many times...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/success/personality-problems-with-other-people/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Personality Problems With Other People'>Personality Problems With Other People</a><br/><small>There are millions of people today who are self-conscious, shy, timid, ill-at-ease in social situations, who feel inferior and never realize that their real problem is a human relations problem. It never seems to get...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/success/comm-you-nication/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Comm-YOU-nication'>Comm-YOU-nication</a><br/><small>Successful people know there's a single three-letter word for getting people's attention... That word is YOU. Adults camouflage their self-centeredness under a mask of civilization and politeness. Yet the human brain still immediately, instinctively, and...</small></li>
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		<title>Are You Happy at Work?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 00:33:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Suppose you work for a company that develops software.  When you first begin working there, you may be focused on the idea of landing a good job, doing interesting work, and beginning a career with strong long-term potential.  Or perhaps you&#8217;re just a geek who loves coding.  At first you may be happy, even fulfilled in [...]


Related Quotes:<ol><li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/articles/psychology/happiness-finds-a-happy-soul/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Happiness Finds a Happy Soul'>Happiness Finds a Happy Soul</a><br/><small>Think about the last time you were really happy; was it with friends or family, were you sitting around laughing from the gut or fishing with your father? When seeking happiness in life, many times...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/health/taking-steps-towards-your-goals/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Taking Steps Towards Your Goals'>Taking Steps Towards Your Goals</a><br/><small>Everything you do, every single decision you make, either takes you a step closer or a step further away from your goal. You either grow or you regress; nothing stands still. Now, imagine that every...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/improvement/successful-improvement/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Successful Improvement'>Successful Improvement</a><br/><small>Imagine what would happen to the Ford Motor Company if its management allowed itself to think, &#8220;This year we&#8217;ve built the ultimate in automobiles. Further improvement is impossible. Therefore, all experimental engineering and designing activities...</small></li>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font size="2"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif">Suppose you work for a company that develops software.  When you first begin working there, you may be focused on the idea of landing a good job, doing interesting work, and beginning a career with strong long-term potential.  Or perhaps you&#8217;re just a geek who loves coding.  At first you may be happy, even fulfilled in this situation.  But as you mature and your values change, you may begin searching for more meaning in your life, and this could lead you to raise your standards about the type of work you&#8217;re willing to do.  The same old projects no longer seem as interesting as they once were, so you look for more challenging and interesting assignments.  As you continue along this path, you may begin looking more critically at the overall contribution you&#8217;re making, both to your company and to the world.  Suppose you know that your company&#8217;s real <a href="http://www.haphits.com/tag/motivation/" rel="tag">Motivation</a> is simply to make a profit and that the software it develops isn&#8217;t really needed.  Perhaps it generates income largely from market inefficiencies and buyer ignorance rather than by providing genuine unique value. </span></font></p>
<p><font size="2"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif">Now you have a tough decision to make.  Do you stay with the company and try to justify your decision (thereby lowering your awareness), do you leave (thereby keeping your awareness high), or do you attempt to transform the company from within (thereby using your awareness to raise the awareness of others)?</span><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif" /><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif" /><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif">This isnt an easy decision to make, but the key to living in a way that works in the long run is that you need to keep yourself from becoming stuck at a fixed level of consciousness.  If you pursue the development and expansion of your consciousness, you will experience some upheaval in your life.  But that doesnt mean your purpose is poorly chosen it just means you need to go through a process of shedding that which is </span><strong style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="font-weight: bold">incongruent</span></strong><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif"> with your purpose.  And if youre like most people, thats going to mean a lot of shedding.  It will probably take years.  But you&#8217;ll come out the other side much stronger and a lot happier.  </span><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif" /><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif" /><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif">The tunnel is hard, but it doesnt last forever, and it leads to a wonderful place that youll never want to leave once you experience it.</span></font></p>


<p>Related Quotes:<ol><li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/articles/psychology/happiness-finds-a-happy-soul/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Happiness Finds a Happy Soul'>Happiness Finds a Happy Soul</a><br/><small>Think about the last time you were really happy; was it with friends or family, were you sitting around laughing from the gut or fishing with your father? When seeking happiness in life, many times...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/health/taking-steps-towards-your-goals/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Taking Steps Towards Your Goals'>Taking Steps Towards Your Goals</a><br/><small>Everything you do, every single decision you make, either takes you a step closer or a step further away from your goal. You either grow or you regress; nothing stands still. Now, imagine that every...</small></li>
<li><a href='http://www.haphits.com/improvement/successful-improvement/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Successful Improvement'>Successful Improvement</a><br/><small>Imagine what would happen to the Ford Motor Company if its management allowed itself to think, &#8220;This year we&#8217;ve built the ultimate in automobiles. Further improvement is impossible. Therefore, all experimental engineering and designing activities...</small></li>
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